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How I Spent Christmas

We spent Christmas Eve in my aunt’s house (my mother’s side), as we usually do since we moved here. My aunt prepared the feast for our lunch and our dinner. As usual, there’s pasta, rotisserie chicken, a whole roasted pig, and lots of Filipino foods.

My cousin prepared lots of games for everyone to enjoy. We played “musical chairs”, “stop dance”, and other made up games. We usually get Php20 to Php40 each when we win. Which is about .50 cents to a dollar. But still, it was fun. Our aunts and uncles even joined in the fun. My grandmother sat on her wheelchair with a smile on her face, she told me that she wished she can stand up and join our games. She suffered a little accident about 7 years ago, she slipped on a marbled floor, and it fractured her hips, but if she didn’t, she would’ve played with us.

Everyone was there, minus my dad, who’s in the province to work. NAPOCOR employees never get to enjoy the holidays. My other relatives weren’t there, too. My aunt from California gave us a call, though. She said she bought lots of calling cards to call everyone; relatives in the Philippines, in Spain, in Japan and in Australia. It’s hard when all you can hear are their voices over the phone. Still, it’s a good thing to get calling cards that are so cheap, so she can talk to all of us. Imagine how huge the phone bill would be after calling us without it!

Our yearly tradition of exchanging gifts happened on Saturday night, the 22nd, because my dad had to leave for work. He comes back on Friday and will celebrate New Year’s eve with us. My secret santa is my sister, Juvy, who gave me a therapeutic pillow, which I told her I wanted for my birthday. I gave my dad a new leather wallet from Girbaud. I gave him a new wallet because his old one has worn out over the years. I also gave my mom and sisters really cute pouches, and I gave my brother a t-shirt. I was supposed to give my dog, Booboo, a play shirt, but it costs too much! But I plan to give her a dog bed, since she sleeps mostly on our couch.

On Christmas day, we stayed at home. My relatives who were affected by the fire came over our home in the afternoon. We gave them our Christmas presents, groceries, and the basic necessities that they need. It actually feels good to give, more than receive the same gifts every year. The gift check I received from my aunt was used to buy new dresses for my little nieces.

My father comes home on Friday. We’re going to our other relatives who were affected by the fire to bring their gifts and the other goods that were donated to us, for them. I want to thank Nix, for sharing her blessings with us. It is a great help! Thank you!

Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year!

After The Fire

I did not have any plans for my birthday. What I did is go to my relatives and bought ice cream for everyone, just to celebrate the day. I was able to take new photos of the place. You can view it on my Flickr account for more fire. My cousin, Roan, who suffered from burns, seems to be feeling better, or at least her spirits are up. A lot of people lend their hand to give us their utmost support and help.

I am deeply in awe how the people that I seldom interact with in real life went out of their way to help us. Pao and Michael were so generous to give us some financial help. Michael is just an online contact in my Multiply account. Pao also offered to give the little kids something after the Holidays. My heart cannot contain the joy of having these people give what they can and more, just to help other people.

A lot of my mother’s friends sent donations of food, clothes, shoes and household items. We were able to give our relatives something to help them start over. As of now, they don’t have a permanent place to stay. My grandmother and my cousin, Raymond, is with my aunt. My other aunt and her kids and families are staying with their relatives on their father side of the family. Of course, it’s just temporary. I believe my dad and his brothers and sisters are working something out. Like, what they would do with the property, if they would sell it or rebuild a new home. I do want them tor rebuild it, because my grandmother loves that place. My grandmother needs a new recliner because hers was lost in the fire. She would usually sit in the veranda during her afternoon naps in her recliner.

Here are some pictures:

  • My mom giving away ice cream.
  • My cousins, the one on the left was the one who got 2nd degree burns. She still manages to smile.

ice cream my cousins

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The Fire Started

I have been thinking about how I should celebrate my birthday, but now, I know what to do. I will just hear mass and pray really hard for my family and relatives. Today, at around 3:30pm, the house that I grew up in, my grandmother’s house, my aunt and uncle’s houses were engulfed by fire. Everything was gone in a span of seconds. My relatives weren’t able to salvage anything from their personal belongings except the clothes on their back. I received the news while I was at my internship. My first thought was my grandmother, if she’s OK, because if anything happened to her, it will truly crush me. The news felt unreal, my hands became so cold and I couldn’t distinguish the emotion that I was feeling. I thought I was just having a bad dream, that maybe my sister’s text message was just a figment of my imagination because I was bored at work. My mom sent a follow up message, and that made it real. My heart felt so heavy inside my chest. I was trying to compose myself and not cry, but I couldn’t help it. I told one of the heads in the office that I have to go to my grandmother’s house.

My mom told me that she just arrived at my grandmother’s place and she’s at the hospital. She’s safe, but she’s been sick since yesterday and because of this ordeal, she just felt sicker and needed to be rushed to the hospital. My 7-year-old cousin, Roan, received second degree burns on her arms, and parts of her legs and feet. She was sleeping next to the room where the fire started.

Apparently, the fire started in the vacant bedroom next to my grandma’s. The house is old and was built from wood. The investigators think that the fire is due to faulty wiring, which is a possibility. It is really unfortunate that this happened 7 days before Christmas. I really feel sorry for the kids because my cousin said they just bought new clothes and shoes for Christmas, and now, they’re all gone. Even my cousin’s Yorkshire Terrier, Twinkle, died..

old house door back side view

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My Dream Car

Everyone, even those who do not know how to drive, has their own dream car. I don’t know how to drive, but I plan to learn this coming summer. Driving down the road with the top down, just looks amazing.

My dream car is a Corvette. Aesthetically speaking, the exterior looks great, and what you can do with the interior is even better. I always watch TV shows that remodels cars, and I would want to customize mine, too. A cool paint job, better mugs, and an amazing grill would be really make my dream car really great.

Corvette

Car safety is very important. If I get to own a fast car like this, it is essential to take precautionary measures to make sure that I don’t get into any accidents. An added feature of this car is its very own Corvette brakes, it increases the performance of the vehicle by maintaining superior control of the car, especially when making those tight turns, plus improving the car’s stopping ability.

Right now, I’ll just have to make do of public transportation. I am still a student and I have no means of getting a new car, or an old car. When I get a job when I graduate next year, I will start to save for my dream car. I don’t know how long it would take me, maybe I don’t even get to buy it. Maybe I would even get a more sensible car. But nevertheless, dreams can always come true, even if it can take forever.

Pimp My Ride 2

Paying for your car doesn’t stop once you get the keys. Maintenance could be a pain, but customizing it the way you wanted it is just rewarding. One of the things that my friend, Karl, look into are grills. He’s got an SUV and he recently bought billet grilles to upgrade the current design. I never thought that adding one thing on a car would make a big difference. But it surely does.

Twenty 5

Oh wow, a new layout. :) Expect a different header image in a day or two :P

My day is coming up and I have no clue what to do. For so many years, I spent that day preparing for a feast that I could share with my friends. I would invite those whom I am really close with, but year after year, one or three would disappoint me and never show up. Last year’s birthday celebration was OK, I guess. Most of the people who came are my new found friends through Ryan. Only 2 of the visitors are my real friends. Two years ago, only four of my friends came, well, one of them is my real friend, and the other 3 are my new friends through that one friend. It sucks. I felt unimportant.

I don’t really know what will happen on that day. I am not even informing anyone about my birthday. Yesterday, JeAr sent me a text message and asked if I had plans. It seems like he is interested in celebrating my birthday. Since I’ve known him, he has been present in my celebrations. He even mentioned that he doesn’t know what to give me. I told him to just surprise me, I am not picky.

My sister suggested that I should just treat my friends to a night out. Dinner, maybe. I was thinking to watch a movie, but I don’t know if there’s a good line up for this weekend. I am planning to invite my friends from my old job. They’re the ones who has never bailed out on me. I just hope that it would really be better than the previous 3 years.

Friday Booboos

No, it’s not about something I did wrong, it’s about my dog, Booboo. You see, the past few days have been a bit depressing for me, and the only way I get to forget about the depressing things, is when I am with Booboo. She makes me feel relaxed and contented. She’s even made me cry, especially when I know that Booboo’s sick.

I don’t think I can live without her. She’s the highlight of my 2007, I think. She’s very sweet. Whenever a member of the family comes home, she makes it a point that she welcomes them. She would tail us until we acknowledge that we see her and that we feel welcomed. If you go upstairs without greeting her, she would wait for you at the foot of the stairs until you come down and greet her.

She loves being touched and she loves her chew toy. I think I’ve bought about 4 chew toys, and all of them didn’t last a month! She also has her own pillow, that she usually hugs when she sleeps and bites on when she’s awake!

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Pimp My Ride

Who would’ve thought getting your own car costs much after you’ve paid for it? Of course, you have to pay for the maintenance of the car. Some even pimp it up just to show off. Karl, a friend of mine, is into cars and customizing them into his own. He even joins car shows. He recently customized his Ford F150. He had to customize its paint job, the rims for the tires and bought a new truck bed liner, while he’s at it.

His truck looks like it has fire blazing on the sides. The interior looks really fancy, yellow on black leather. He even added an LCD screen on the dashboard. The stereo system is quite nice, too. One time, we parked somewhere in Antipolo, and at the back of the truck, we all hung out, and danced the night away. I wish I had the money to get me a ride, but first, I got to learn how to drive. Hahaha!

Fit Right

Staying fit is really hard, especially when you rely on eating right alone. Sometimes you need help from a fitness equipment to help you keep up with the diet. Most of time, I slip and go back to the heavy side. I am not really blaming my hectic schedule for the lack of exercise, but it is an added factor. I had my mom buy healthier foods, and ban junk foods altogether. I can even blame it on genetics. Haha!

I really need to discipline myself and be on my toes when I am around fatty foods. I’ve already asked my sister to workout with me, and she agreed. Like I said, genetics! She purchased a workout video that we can follow. It’s more of a dance workout, without those painful crunches. I think I’m going to love it. I need to be fit for the summer!

Yearly Tradition

Since we moved here, we’ve managed to live up to our yearly tradition of exchanging gifts. This year, I proposed that we should all have a wish list to be posted on our fridge. I wasn’t surprised to see that the one with the longest list is my brother, Zj. He wants to have a playstation 3, new game for his gameboy, new pair of sneakers, his own laptop, and endless things that are related to games and gadgetry. I want my own laptop, too! But he won’t be getting that if none of my parents pick his name from our “mystery bowl”.

I honestly am having a hard time writing down my list. It seems that I don’t really know what I want for Christmas1. It doesn’t even feel like Christmas is coming. I know that it’s colder, and I can see the decorations everywhere, except our tree isn’t up yet, but our Santa Bear is proudly sitting on top of our coffee table.

christmas giftIn line with the Christmas spirit, I am doing a Christmas tag. As I was lurking at Pao‘s, I saw that she is offering Christmas cards and physical/tangible gift to the first five commenters on her entry. I am doing the same.

Before the end of 2007, I will send a card and physical gift to each of the first five people who comment here. The catch? Each person must make the same offer on her/his blog.

But, since I am a student and my resources are limited, I am offering this to the first 5 who lives in the Philippines. Maybe next year, when I have a regular job, I will do this tag again and make it open internationally.

Anyway, my invite to anyone who wants to receive a holiday post card for me is still open, so use my contact form and include your full name and mailing address.

Have a great weekend!


  1. two front teeth? *lol* []