Last Saturday
Things were fine last Saturday, but you just had to ruin it, come Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. What gives? Coming over seems to be a chore to you now.
Is it really like this? When a relationship becomes longer, the men just settles in and stops the courtship? I can understand that, but treating me this way is not an excuse. I thought we were fine last Saturday. We had a great time together, we were able to hangout at McCafe and take happy pictures together, but what he did to me was rude.
We were having a chat over the Yahoo! Messenger, and when the conversation becomes more heated, he would log off. The first time he did it, he just left, no goodbye whatsoever. Then last night, he said he would log out, but he didn’t give me a chance to say anything. It’s just plain rude. There is no excuse for rudeness! I can’t think of a reason why he would do this to me. Maybe this is just a phase, but it has gone long enough. A good friend said I should stick it out with R, and I would. If there is anything bothering him, I hope he would tell me. I don’t have the power to guess what he is thinking or feeling. I’ve always let him know that he can tell me anything, that I’d be the last person to judge him, but most of the time, he keeps to himself. I would know about itafter the problem has been solved. I thought he’d be my best friend, because I have none, but I feel like an outsider, being treated rudely. This is not what I signed up for. I feel so powerless.
I’m sorry for an emo post. I can’t help it. :’(
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Sarah
June 27, 2008 @ 4:05 pm
Hmmm… hindi ko din sya maintindihan. Siguro nga phase lang. Baka ito yung time na you both need your “space”… pero diba, sana din bigyan ka nya ng reason kung bakit sya ganyan sayo ngayon. Hindi yun hinahayaan lang nya na bahala ka na kung anong isipin mo.
Ayoko din yung sa chat, tapos bigla ka nalang iniiwanan, hindi man lang mag sabi. Nakakabastos naman talaga yun eh, kahit sino.
Hmm, baka may problem lang sya ngayon and ayaw ka nya ma-burden kaya sinasarili nya. Hay.. ang hirap! Good luck sa current situation nyo ngayon. I hope maayos.
Pero lam mo Dre, ako, parang nawawalan ng gana na kay Jake. Ang sama ko.. hala! Sigh.. parang gusto ko mag date-date muna. YUCK, parang ang dami ko naman pwedeng i-date. HAHAHA!! Basta yung feeling na ganon. Ewan ko ba.
O sige, basta, wag masyado problemahin yun ah.. and kung hindi mo na talaga kaya, just talk to him directly and don’t wait for him to come tell you. I hope it works out.
HuGS!
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scart
June 30, 2008 @ 11:43 am
sa tingin ko parehas kayo ma-pride… dapat may isa sa inyong magpakumbaba if you still want your relationship. May pagka nagger ka ba? kasi most guy pagganun na nangyayari sa usapan biglang nawawala.
hayy sana maayos pa yan…
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Romney
June 27, 2008 @ 2:16 pm
Ugh, guys are way too weird. My bf used to do that. I think your best bet would be to tell him what you’re thinking. How you think it’s a bit RUDE for him to just log out on you. I mean it’s not right, you know it’s rude. And he’s not a mind reader. As females we have to stop thinking guys KNOW what’s right and wrong. A lot of times they really have no clue how things will make us feel until we tell them. And if they respect you enough they’ll work on changing it. If they don’t at all then it’s time to keep it moving. I hope everything turns out better for you!!
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