I have been Plurking almost the entire day… but I was productive! I was able to finish the career website for our company, I only need our boss’ approval, who is currently in Cebu, swimming with our programmer and his kids.
I feel that my life is on the line. My love life, anyway. It seems like me and lover are always arguing about the littlest things. I always find myself provoking him with questions, questions that, to me, are quite normal. Like,
Why did you ask me if I wanted to have lunch with you today when you really can’t?
I wasn’t being a b*tch, but, it sucks when he reacts differently when I ask him questions in that nature. He used to “just answer” the question. Now, he gets annoyed, then I become cranky, so basically, the b*tchiness and my claws just come out. Rawr! I know that it’s both our fault, but I don’t think I’ve changed. I’ve always been that way, asking questions when I need answers.
Today is our 22nd month together, and it sucks that we had to fight. We never fight. For the past few months, since 2008 began, we’ve been at each other’s throats for the smallest of reasons. I hate it! I never thought we’d get to this point. Is this a phase?
My sister said, when we were plurking, that I should get married to R. She said that he’s the best compared to my exes, and that she thinks R’s the one for me. I don’t know if I still think that way. I guess, we have so many things to face together before we can really say we’re supposed to be together for the rest of our lives. We’re going to see each other tomorrow, but honestly, I don’t feel like going. I don’t want to eat and watch a movie. I want to talk. But his time is not enough, it’s not his rest day, and we have to go home early because he has to go to work at 2am the next day. I hate that our schedules don’t match. I want more time with R… more time… quality time…
Nah. You two will be okay tomorrow. :p
Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is actually a preparation for marriage.
You really think so? I hope so…
aww lovelife.. shux my most hated topic but i think ha.. hnd lht ng couples lging happy may times na gnyan and cguru u just need na malagpasan ang stage na gnyan hehe for me naman.. oh well, i’ll pass to that relationship and love thingy. hehe
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nakuh ordinary lang yan dre ang away bati sa relationship pero yan din naman ang nagbibigay spice sa relasyon db. agree ako kay sister mo mukhang okey na okey naman si ryan para sa iyo. talagang kailangan lang ng pacensyahan kung minsan.
Dre marami pa kayo pagdadaanan… but am sure kaya nyo yan… =) habaan mo lang pasensya mo…
There will really be days like that. Even my boyfriend and I will fight over the smallest things on some days. When it seems it’s becoming frequent, I try my best to laugh it off. I don’t want to come the point we’d get tired of each other because of that. XP
I don’t want to ruin further your mood, but quality really does help… In this matter. Good luck to you both! :)
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I hope you and Ryan’s only going through a phase. Pero alam mo ba, ako with Jake, kahit wala pa kaming away away, parang natatamad na ako sa kanya. Alam ko gasgas na to, pero it’s not him, it’s me. Ako yung nawawalan ng gana maging “in a relationship” and the weird thing is, I think our relationship actually is getting better. Sigh. Hindi ata ako aabot sa stage na away away ah.. hehehe.. pero malay ko rin.. mamaya tumagal ako… Hehe.
Si Jake pinakamatagal kong relationship and first serious boyfriend.. kaya unlike you, wala akong ma compare like what your sis did. Pero tingin ko nga, okay naman si Ryan, from the few posts I’ve read na sya ang topic. =P
Sakto pa na yung anti-spam key ko dito RYAN. LOL!
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Laarnay is right. kung titignan mo din yung relationship niyo, it will give you a clue (or preview) about what your marriage will be like. lahat naman ng relationships dumadaan sa mga rough spots. don’t worry, as long as you love and respect each other, maaayos din yan.
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awwww laarni is right you too will be ok… ganyan lang talaga pero ewan ko kung nararamdaman nyo yung after nyo mag-argue eh masarap makipaglamibingan :)
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ay mali “two” pala yun sorry!! lagi ako ganyan sa mga sentences ko tsk!
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Sorry you and R had that fight. Hopefully you will get to spend more time together *hugs*. Plurk has taken over the intertubes, lol
maybe that’s the reason why there’s a certain point in time that you argue w/ each other because you guys have less time w/ each other na.. i don’t know.. in some point, i see myself to you.. most especially that “questions” that sounds b*tchy..
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Remember, part of a relationship is fighting and how you guys deal with it. =)